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I guess I'm one of the only ones that was NOT glad to see Jacob at the wedding. I just had a feeling that something was going to go wrong to spoil the happiness of the night, and I was right. Of course, I'm not a Jacob fan AT ALL, so I wasn't happy or relieved that he made an appearance.

That being said, I absolutely loved the wedding! I think Alice did a perfect job, and I was glad that Bella could appreciate everything and be happy and "in the moment." From personal experience, I can say that there's nothing that compares to seeing the love of your life waiting for you at the end of the aisle, and knowing that you'll be together forever.

Well, I didn't enjoy seeing Jacob in the wedding either!
I kinda hoped that he would just show up and take a look at how it would be, but never expected him to actually go and have a little chat with Bella.
I was almost hoping that it would end up ok, but I was so mad that Jacob ruined (only if just a little tiny moment) the wedding. He so could have spared Bella from it!

My Wedding Thoughts:
Did we all not know that the wedding would be amazing just because Alice and Esme were the planners? I know i did. A few random things...
1.) I think that the wedding, even though dreaded by Bella, was everything she would have planned it if she hadn't been dreading it. I believe she wouldn't have done the same thing because she is no Alice and although it was beautiful it didn't reflect her as much but i think that in an essence it did. It reflected her and Edward's relationship and how beautiful it truly is.
2.) Although Jacob is not a favorite character of mine or even high on my list of liked characters, him showing up at the wedding made it everything Bella wanted it to be. There was always the part in her mind that longed for him to be there and i don't think it would have been a complete wedding, to her, without him there.
3.) I think that Jake's meltdown was a little much but if i were him i knew it made sense. You have to think that he is in LOVE with this girl, and he came to her wedding despite what he knew it would do to him when he had to say goodbye to her again with her on Edward's arm, the person she chose over him, and just walk away. Can't you see how hard that would be? And then knowing that she may never come back? Like she might be killed? It wasn't like Bella and Edward didn't know it would be challenging but Jacob didn't think taking the chance was worth it. So i think it was much but in the whole scenario, it wasn't anything compared to what Jake was capable of.
4.) I really like how she realized, when she was standing at the alter, that her whole fuss over the wedding and marriage was a dumb mistake. She knew that it didn't matter what anyone else thought about the whole ordeal. I knew that sooner or later she would come around because she really was going to be with Edward for as long as Humanly/Vampirey possibly, so it did not matter that she had to marry him in order to complete the deal. I believe that subconsciously she actually knew that too.

*The wedding was all that it was cracked up to be, the Cullens are always amazing in that way. They make everything perfect.

i was so happy when bella finally said she would marry edward, he totally deserves to be happy and eventually bella would be happy too.
when bella walked down the stairs and saw edward and realized she wanted this i knew things would be great.
jacob, jacob, jacob
i wasnt happy to see him at all at the wedding. and i never liked how bella was always super happy when he was around because edward just had to deal with it.
jacob's reaction was over the top.
just because edward was a vampire that shouldnt change anything.
he could have tried to have been more accepting if that would have made bella happy.

diane771 wrote:I know of a lot of people who were against Bella and Edward getting married and I thought they were crazy

I think so too!! People complain that Bella's too young and blah blah blah, but I don't get what the problem is at all! Why shouldn't they get married, really?

Most were saying she was too young and about her mom, but I say if she can become a vampire, and make that desision then the marriage is minor compared to that. And Edward really wanted to do the "proper" way, that's how he grew up.