Esme echo wrote:I know I'll hear howls of disbelief for saying this, but in my opinion, it's not criminal to accidentally bruise your beloved. It happens; the important question is, was it deliberate? Uncaring or careless? How do each of you feel?
Consider that Edward:
--is a vampire,
--his physical reactions are more intense than a human's, and
--his super strength is an ever-present danger to Bella.
No one could have tried to be more careful than Edward during that night; he could not have been more remorseful that he didn't have perfect control during his first sexual experience.
At the same time, Bella could not remember a single moment when she felt that Edward was holding her too tightly (p. 89). She acknowledged that she marked up easily (p. 95) and she was less sore afterwards than when she'd over-done it at the gym (p. 91). Bella was totally joyed that their very unequal physical characteristics were not a greater factor in their physical relationship. I appreciated her comment, "Fire and ice, somehow existing together without destroying each other."
For me, the most important part of this incident is that in subsequent "practice," Edward did not bruise Bella again! One of the things I love most about Edward is his total commitment to keeping Bella safe and happy.
Bkwrm wrote:For all the fuss about how Edward "hurt" Bella - what do people think would have happened with Jacob?
He would have done as much damage to her; probably worse. After all, we've seen that Jacob has NO problem with manhandling Bella - look what happened when she broke her hand after he forced a kiss on her. He laughed his head off.
Not to mention, look what Sam did to Emily.
Edward, OTOH, has always tried not to hurt Bella; unlike Jacob, he takes his power seriously.
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