Re: Bella Swan Cullen
Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 3:09 pm
Yes, a new topic should be started. Though I have a few rebutuls.
Yes, Bella takes Jacob for granted at times. But, to say she always does is in correct. She thinks about him and how her choices would affect him. But, her natural reaction to Jacob's presence shows he is important to her and doesn't take him for granted. She is happy, and he's happy. It is not all Bella's fault it is also Jacob's. Jacob knows what he is getting himself into.
Then Jacob knows that by going to Bella's school he would hurt her and himself at the same time. He could have also tried to call her or met her somewhere else where they wouldn't have caused such big scene. Though who would want someone mad at them. She isn't only focusing on how it would be difficult to deal with both of them at the same time for her, but also how it would affect Jacob and Edward. Jacob is also being selfish here because he is more motivated by his wants and emotions than Bella. He wants Bella, so he tries to destroy her relationship with Edward.
She never exactly puts the Cullens and wolves in danger of the newborns because there isn't any danger for them, she just thinks there is. Bella wants Edward with her because she worries about him being hurt. By having Edward with her she is put at ease and that is why he agrees to her. He doesn't want her to worry.
It is ridiculous that Bella puts herself in danger to make herself feel better. If we just look at the basics, she is doing something for her own good. Which isn't a bad thing, it just proves she's human.
She does want to correct the fact that she hurts Jacob, she tries to stay away but he makes it difficult for her and she is still attracted to him, but doesn't know why.
I'm not saying ALL she does is for others, I did say that she does things for herself. She is motivated to maintain her and Edward's relationship. Not by selfish reasons.
She is not really self-centered. She is more centered around Edward and Renesmee and the rest of her family, than herself.
She is and has always been independent.. Just with Edward they became more of a single force, rather than two seperate ones. And do what it takes to stay that way and have everyone safe around them.
Yes, Bella takes Jacob for granted at times. But, to say she always does is in correct. She thinks about him and how her choices would affect him. But, her natural reaction to Jacob's presence shows he is important to her and doesn't take him for granted. She is happy, and he's happy. It is not all Bella's fault it is also Jacob's. Jacob knows what he is getting himself into.
Then Jacob knows that by going to Bella's school he would hurt her and himself at the same time. He could have also tried to call her or met her somewhere else where they wouldn't have caused such big scene. Though who would want someone mad at them. She isn't only focusing on how it would be difficult to deal with both of them at the same time for her, but also how it would affect Jacob and Edward. Jacob is also being selfish here because he is more motivated by his wants and emotions than Bella. He wants Bella, so he tries to destroy her relationship with Edward.
She never exactly puts the Cullens and wolves in danger of the newborns because there isn't any danger for them, she just thinks there is. Bella wants Edward with her because she worries about him being hurt. By having Edward with her she is put at ease and that is why he agrees to her. He doesn't want her to worry.
It is ridiculous that Bella puts herself in danger to make herself feel better. If we just look at the basics, she is doing something for her own good. Which isn't a bad thing, it just proves she's human.
She does want to correct the fact that she hurts Jacob, she tries to stay away but he makes it difficult for her and she is still attracted to him, but doesn't know why.
I'm not saying ALL she does is for others, I did say that she does things for herself. She is motivated to maintain her and Edward's relationship. Not by selfish reasons.
She is not really self-centered. She is more centered around Edward and Renesmee and the rest of her family, than herself.
She is and has always been independent.. Just with Edward they became more of a single force, rather than two seperate ones. And do what it takes to stay that way and have everyone safe around them.