Pel wrote:Not understanding someone male? Post about it here.
As a mod, this is very sexist. How? Well, you are asking fellow females to take their troubles out on us males. If there is a complete opposite thread like this, then I call that creator sexist too. We all should not assume things that we do 'not' know. I don't find it offensive, but I do find it wrong that those males who have done nothing wrong to a female (such as myself) do not deserve to be called "Confused."
samajama wrote:Boys never show interest in me. Really frustrating.
Unless you have not met every male species in the world, please don't make assumptions that all guys don't show interest in you.
lalaith913 wrote:Here's my dealy: (if a guy could respond to this, i would much appreciate it)
This might be more for the dating thread, but here goes:
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months. I am the one who calls and makes plans 99% of the time. He NEVER does; he does, however, always go along with anything I suggest and will talk with me for hours and I can tell when we are together that he does enjoy it and really wants to be there. SO WHY AM I THE ONE DOING ALL THE WORK?! Is this a typical guy thing?
Before I answer your question, I would just like to state (coming from a guy, as myself) that most guys out there are extremely shy. They always talk to their friends first, asking what they should do.
Now to your question: I just think that your boyfriend is shy and is still adjusting. You have been dating for 3 months you know, so try asking him what he wants to do. If he says I don't know, give up and suggest your own opinion. The next time you call him, ask him again, but tempt him into thinking by saying something along the lines like, "C'mon, anything? I don't mind watching a movie, going to the beach, hanging out or something?"
Thanks for reading.
StupidxLamb wrote:Guys aren't confusing...they are confused. I totally understand them, it's they who don't understand themselves or US. Which, in the end, makes them act stupidly.
starinatstars03 wrote:Ughh. Boys.
~twilight_princess~ wrote:GAHHH! Boys are SO CONFUSING!
dimber wrote:...boys are really confusing sometimes.
Ruby wrote:Ugh...they are so confusing...
ilovetwilight wrote:Boys aren't complicated, they just complicate things. - Quote by my sister, Jessica.
Well this is alot of critizism. Please note that if you find this informent enclosed 'confusing' it's not that I'm confusing or confused, it might be that maybe you don't understand.
Many (and I mean 98% of you females who have posted on this thread) of you females, assume. I don't mind if you assume, but when it comes to assuming that 'all' male species are confusing, that is sexist, offensive and critizism. If you have not met 'every' guy out there, please do not make assumptions that all males are like the ones you have had problematic, emotional and mental situations with. It seems like that ever since Twilight
premiered, all girls see males differently now. They expect us to all be like Edward Cullen or close to being a gentleman as he is. There's a saying that goes "If all men are gentlemen, then no men are gentlemen."
So please. Before you make accusations about my fellow species please take in consideration that not all men are like the jerks you have faced within your lives. Maybe one day, each and every girl can have a gentlemen of their own, and their wouldn't need to be a heaven, as they already are in it.
Thanks for reading.