Persephonie wrote:Life is about taking little but numeous leaps of faith.
There's no avoiding it.
People need to open themselves up and trust in themselves that no matter what could possibly happen, they will be alright.
Opening up takes courage, but that's the only way you'll feel. Sure you might set yourself up to get hurt, but that's how you learn. Its how people grow and it's the only way guys and girls will get to know how the other ticks.
Brokensoul wrote:I think i will chime in on this as well. truth be told i have only had 1 girlfriend my whole life (the only reason I'm still not with her is because she moved away far away with her dad because i told her to. Cause where she was living at the time with her mom she was abused not physically but mentally. At the time i didn't have enough money saved up and she couldn't get a job to get our own place. It was obvious that it had taken its toll on her so her dad was moving away and i told her to move with him. It was truly hard to let her go we still talk a little bit from time to time she got married and had a kid and is living a good life so it worked out ) Its hard for me to approach women i mean i can talk to them and stuff get to know them but i dunno when the right time is to express if i have any feelings towards them. If i say it to early they will think I'm a creep or crazy and if i say it to late they think i have little to no in tress in them lol. So i usually tend not to say anything also because i dunno if they like me back its hard to read them. Are they hanging out with me because of they like me, like me as a friend or just don't want to be mean? I dunno maybe i just over thinking everything. I would like to believe I'm A nice funny guy, but for now ill just keep waiting.
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