TWIN!!! You silly girl, GNE, you are the one who recommended I read it!

And I LOVE your analogy, it was VERY Luke and Leah however, even from the beginning of Star Wars, I always saw it as Leah and Solo... they just needed time. I never really saw Luke and Leah as anything more than just friends. But when I read City of Bones, it was SUCH a perfect pairing for Jace and Clary that I was REALLY annoyed that she did it. The worst part....she sets it up in such a way that you see it coming a chapter or two a head of time so you can be all worked up and angry when it comes out. *hangs head* Sorry for ranting.
Ren, it'd be great, you, GNE and I can read City of Ashes and come back and discuss. With what Nissanmama said I am hoping that this (annoying) plot point has a purpose that will be revealed later. I have hope...