JennyTheWriter sometimes playing a little is a good thing. I mean, there's always a moment when you can't play anymore, especially if you want the relationship to last long. But it's not like cheating, in my opinion, it's just a creative way to communicate. The problem is that men tend to go on playing also after the cards have been showed...so, I think you should ask yourself a little fundamental question: is he playing like this to keep me interested or just because he is a player and that's all?
By the way, I don't want to scare you: enjoy this wonderful stage of the relationship...it's so much fun!!!! And good luck for the after game
Just a quick news: the bank gave us a positive answer and in a couple of weeks we should sign the mortgage contract. Within one hour bf and I are going to visit the flat again to arrange the last small things with the proprietor and take some pictures. Since the flat was redecorated some years ago we don't need to do anything but taking our own furniture with us. But, since every room is painted in a different colour we must take picture in order to buy the right type of furniture...we could change the color of the walls but it's just so classy and beautiful I don't want to change anything!