First of all, I would just like to say that I am more than ecstatic for Bella, Edward and the new addition to the Cullen’s family, renesme! I don’t understand why everyone is getting there panties in a bunch about Edward and Bella having a family, or Renesmes name!! It’s not your story or family and it’s not your child to name. I think everyone should feel happy for Bella and Edward, this is after all there story and it is what THEY wanted!!
Bella’s behavior in the beginning and even during of the pregnancy was something I don’t think many people could relate to because not everyone has had the opportunity to have children. And I don’t feel it is something I can elaborate on because I myself have never had children. I have however have had to watch my under age sister struggle with a pregnancy that was very unexpected… and I think that in that respect I can kind of understand how Bella felt.
As for Edward, I can not blame him either. This was not something he even considered when he decided to give Bella what she wanted. In fact no one saw this as a possibility. I mean try to look at the situation from his perspective, After many, MANY years, he finally finds the one person he wants to spend the rest of forever with and after some work he realizes he is able to have somewhat of a normal relationship with her and even gets her to agree to stay human for a little longer… then WAM!! He ends up getting her pregnant, something neither he nor any one else thought possible, and as reality sinks in he remembers some of the legends he has heard, you know, where the baby rips apart the mother to be free…. How else is he supposed to act? Then, he has to watch Bella, the one person he loves more blood, be ripped apart from the inside out.
I think both Bella and Edward were justified in there actions. And I am more than happy with the outcome.