Elizabeth wrote:Kaitlyn why are you torturing yourself? Cody is no good for you, period. But you get that! Ask for Steve, do you really want to be the runner up? Or, have someone's leftovers? This girl has damaged him, and he takes her back. What's not to say he brings these issues to any future relationships? Steve can't be that nice if he kisses you and then takes the other girl back, it's like he's abusing your feelings for him. He wants his cake and wants to eat it too. What if you two dated and temporarily broke up and he kissed another girl, he does to you what he does to his current gf? Regardless of the circumstances, you deserve to be treated better, whether you're going out with him or he's just a friend.
Maybe you just love the IDEA of being with Cody because you have a history and he's familiar territory. Same thing with Steve, you like the idea of being with someone 'different'. Think about it, if it's more effort to be in a relationship because you're constantly working on not breaking up or getting back together, is it worth it, is really a relationship if you're hardly together? I say, it doesn't work out the first time, there's usually a reason.
~twilight_princess~ wrote:GAHHH! Boys are SO CONFUSING! I agree.
This one guy acts like he likes me half the time, but he told me he liked this other girl.. twicE! He comes to me for his girl advice. Problem is, I think I like him. I don't really want to like him because my friends think he's weird, but I like him. I can't date anyway until next year, but I don't know what to do!!
~twilight_princess~ wrote:I'm fifteen, I'll be sixteen next summer. I just don't know about this boy. I mean, he danced with me at homecoming, and I don't think he danced with this other girl (who is one of my good friends) and he hugs me all the time when he sees me, and we can actually TALK... (I'm not that good at talking to guys). Idk... I probably won't act on it until I CAN date, but I still just think about him all the time, and I can't tell anyone because my friends might tease me about it/or they think he's weird. I think that they think I'm too good for him.
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