I have always believed that true love existes, and was always sort of expecting it to happen, and it's strange because I don't have any nice good examples of true love around. I didn't have grandparent with great love stories, and my parent divorced when I was a kid... but for some reason I never stop thinking I would eventually find the right person. And I did, three years ago. And although it wasn't really love at first sight, it was a relationship that moved fast, and love happened pretty quickly.
I suppose if you ask me why I believe in true love, I could give the simple answer of 'because I've found it'. But why is it that I'm so sure that it's true love? Well, because I can not imagine my life without him, or if I try what comes to mind is quite a horrible life. Because I don't only love him, but I love who I am with him, because even though we are different people we have so much in common, and because we are both so ready to listen to the other, to share things with eachother. From the beggining it felt right, but it was never easy, we lived four hours away, and most long distant relationships don't work, and ours did only because we worked for it. It was only a few months ago, when we were already living together, that while talking to a friend who had a boyfriend that lived in a different city (but only a two hours away) and with whom she was thinking of breking up with, that I realised just how much work my boyfriend and I, have pu on to make our relationship work. And the best part was, at the time it didn't feel like it was so hard... sure it was a sacrifice to travel every other weekend, but I just never considered not doing it. The idea never crossed my mind. And I think that is something that shows you, you are in the presence of true love, you have to make sacrifaces, you have to work for it, but you do so happily and without consideration, because it feels like you don't really have an option!
True Love is finding that one person that you feel you can share everything with, that you feel content with them no matter what you are doing, or where you are, simply because you are together, because there is comfort in the others presence. Is about finding the one person who makes you better, who brings out the good in you, while you bring out the good in them.
And I do think it exist for everyone, that we all can find the right person, but it's just a lot more complicated that most people think, and I believe you have to be reasy as a person to find true love. Because, even though my boyfriend is perfect for me and viceversa, I pretty sure things would not have worked between us, have we met two years or more earlier. So it's about the right timing also.