The Dating Thread--take 2

Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Postby Conzoni al vento » Wed Feb 04, 2009 6:27 pm

hahaha. YES!!! I knew you would pass!!! Congrats for having access to anywhere your car can take you! My parent's won't let me even get my permit until it's the spring because snow is apparently "too dangerous" . ppshhht. who knew? lol.
As for Patrick I hope he DOES cast you so you can have a more glorious acting experience. hehehe.
Umm.. Lovin' the dream! Seriously... why haven't I had one of those? lol... hehhe I don't think Andy wanted to get into the whole issue of you vs. her at that moment but eventually someone has got to do something.

You should feel sexy after that. I love the belly dance, it's like my second favorite dance and it's wayyy uber sexy so you should feel something way cooler than "rockstar".
I reallllly want to see that movie! Maybe I should see it seeing as how i'm a firm non-valentines day believer. =]
I think it's fine that you lied to him about this. it's basically unsignificant and unimportant so don't feel sinful.. save that for other actions ;)
His sweater does smell good. I know what perfume he wears, too which is kinda creepy...but he told me so whatever. I also know his BMI (he made me memorize it for him). hahaha.

Good job! ahaha. What grade are you in?
I hate freshmen (9ers). everyone does! It's an american past time. hahaha.
And it sounds like O wants to come over. Let him... wait I missed the story. Do you like him?

Well i talked to Amber today; she told me that she has round 2 of potential mates (for a lack of better word). One: her exboyfriend. Last boyfriend she had and he told her she was the only meaningful relationship he's had. Plus I think he's particularly more attractive than Lu. an Two: Lu. Ethan's out of the game.
I've recently decided that I'm going to try to not pester them about it anymore. My maternal insticts are too overbearing.
So for the concert either Ethan or Lu will still be single. and so will I. (Hopefully not. My horoscope told me that a new guy was coming into my life. who knows if it can come true or not.)
No love life this week. Zilch. =[

When it comes to dating are you guys the opposites attract type or the friends first kinds?
The last boy I liked we weren't really friends first but I liked him because we are sooo alike. Yes this would happen to be Lu. (turns out I fit in perfectly with his family because I'm the same person as his sister, too. hah)
He's basically a skankier version of me as guy.
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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Postby goymer » Wed Feb 04, 2009 7:10 pm

I'm feeling confused, thoughtful, undecided, tired, ill and achey :? Which is all quite new to me, as I'm used to just being bored :lol:

Confused, because the day before L and I were supposed to be seeing each other she posted this comment on FB:

"Things didnt work out with the guy i was seeing, But i like someone else aswell so i asked for it."

Now, I'm assuming that I'm not the first guy, but I don't think I'm the second either, because I asked her out :?

Thoughtful and undecided, because now I DO want to do something for valentines day, but I have no idea what. I also don't want to plan something, build it all up in my head, only to get shot down when L tells me she's already seeing someone. So, task one: find out if she is/is planning on seeing anyone (that isn't me). Task two: if she IS single, think of and plan something romantic for valentines.

Tired, dunno why, I'm just kanckered.

Ill, I have a freaking cold :( You know you're getting old when somewhere in your mind you think "this is going to make life awkward for a few days", instead of "YAY, SNOOOOOWWWW!!!"

And achey, because my legs and back really hurt (to go along with the tiredness)

When it comes to dating, are you guys opposites attract types or friends first?
I've got to be friends first before I'd even consider asking them out. I've just got to not let us get too far into the "friend zone"
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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Postby a_n_n_a » Wed Feb 04, 2009 7:26 pm

When it comes to dating are you guys the opposites attract type or the friends first kinds?
I'm almost always attracted to a guy after we've become friends . . . Wait, that wasn't phrased correctly and could be taken that I often like my guy friends, which is not true. Well, by now you all understand what I meant. For everyone there is always that first kind of attraction that makes you want to get to know someone, otherwise you wouldn't want to get to know them, even if you weren't looking for "romance", so to speak. So after all that, I like friends. I like guys. Why not just have some great guy friends and possibly end up liking one of them? Sounds like a win to me!
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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Postby keds723 » Wed Feb 04, 2009 9:13 pm

Wolf-Girl90: I hate this. Haha, it's very tempting to want to give in and flirt. I'm trying to be good. And you're right...I do have a type. Long hair, good personalities, and plays guitar. Sigh...I will keep you updated on that randomness. Again with the politenes...maybe trying to make a good impression? Just invite O over!

stupidxlamb: It made me laugh hard too, but that's alright. I haven't said anything to him as of yet since I'm still embarassed for nearly making him road kill, but you're right. Probably too good to be true (for now). I love playing hookey! And I'm sure the church teacher will never know. Stress is technically a "sickness" so you technically didn't lie. And lady friends are the best! I suggest getting popcorn and adding M&Ms to it. Seriously. Every girl should do this. Salty and sweet. :)

psugar: Sometimes I wonder where they find these substitute teachers. Haha! Guys like that scary me so much. Sometimes it's easier just to say, "Hey. I don't like you. Go away!" If you don't, he'll probably just follow you more. I'm so sorry. :-/

lovemesomecullens: Seriously, I know. I am going to take your advice. It was good advice. Obviously it now seems impossible to ignore him, so I should just give in and become awesome friends!!Hahah! Your DMV story made me laugh. He made you cry?! I would have punched him in the face!!! I love it when guys give compliments like that. It's so great. And I 100% approve of your plan!

Update: I spent the evening with Evan. It was fun, and we talked about "our future" a little bit. He said that when he goes to Oregon, he doesn't expect me to sit around and wait for him to come back, especially if I'm unhappy. He said that if I felt something for someone else and decided it was worth the shot, I should take it, and he would deal with his side. I love him so much. But it's strange, because I've been thinking a lot about B lately. I hate crushes, and this one seems to be a little hardcore. I think because it's kind of "forbidden" it's tempting. But I'm trying not to think anything of it and just be myself. He hasn't said anything about liking me or whatever, so I think for now, I'm all set. If he makes the move, I have a feeling I'm going to get VERY confused. Gah...the agony!
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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Postby samajama » Wed Feb 04, 2009 9:55 pm

When it comes to dating are you guys the opposites attract type or the friends first kinds?
Friends first. Then again, that doesn't always work because guys put you in that "friend zone" and never let you out. :x Anyway..opposites attract, I just don't see how that could work. I'm not saying anything against it, I just don't think it would work. *shrugs* Who knows?

I still have no update. Sorry friends. :[
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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Postby psugar » Wed Feb 04, 2009 10:36 pm

Thanks Keds and Christine(Lovemesomecullens, I'm slowly learning peoples names) I'm already avoiding him like an old guy friend that I went shopping with(your suspicions are right about him if that's what your thinking) and then he spread around the school we went out so now he's completely ignored, he got what was coming for him.

Keds: All I can say is good luck and try to stay away from temptation, but yeah start befriending B perhaps. I do wonder were they get our crazy subs.

Update: If anyone remembers the choir dude who likes me, he's getting better and he was at the concert because he too was in it. I sucked my song up though still people liked it for some reason though it gave them no reason to be "Far From the home they love" :lol: . It was super funny with my friend John(singing a song and it labeled sopranos and altos as virgins, our choir director kept telling us special people who are going to sing in a special concert to shut up). I was walking out with John and Will(the other dude who likes me) he is like "We are all buddies." and puts his arm around us both, but not in the weird way, I guess he now understands.
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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Postby Wolf-Girl90 » Thu Feb 05, 2009 1:09 pm

Psugar Of course you can say "lilt"! :lol: I'm surprised you've never heard of it before! Where abouts in Britain are you going to, if you don't mind me asking! I've basically been everywhere! My parents are big fans of the "British Summer Holiday"..... :? Your choir sounds like fun! I was in one last year and it was super boring! The concerts weren't too bad though I suppose! It's good that Will seems to have gotten the message! I'm sure that's a super relief! :D

Kristen Your boyfriend sounds like a definite keeper! What he said to you was amazingly cute, I actually sighed! Forbidden crushes are the worst I will admit! Do you have any inkling that B might like you? Do you think it would be better if you found out he liked you or not? Sorry if that's a hard question!

Lena Well, I'm British so I'm not really in the "know" when it comes to the American system but I think I'd be a Sophomore! The whole Amber thing is really complicated! Is she just one of those people who has one of those ridiculously complicated loves lives? It sure as hell sounds like it to me! :lol: Although I could be concussed as I got hit by a snowball again today, this time by a sixth former! (That'd be a junior to you!) I hope your star sign is right! My star sign nearly always comes true so I don't see why yours couldn't! :D Let us know how it goes love x

Christine I think I'm slightly frustrated by the whole Andy thing too! :lol: It's good that you could see yourselves becoming a couple though! Definitely in the future though if the whole Cara/Andy thing goes down the pan! How often do you talk to Andy? A lot or not much? The dream is definitely bizarre! I love dreams like that though! I once dreamt that me and Chris were working in a chicken factory in Norway! It was amazing though! No, I don't think my friends do know what an ice storm is, but to be honest, I don't either! I only know what you have to stay inside because the mayor says so! :lol:

up-date It is seriously snowing outside! I am praying there is no school tomorrow! I am on my knees begging for a lie in!
Well, the whole Chris thing was as painful as expected! I was extremely sympathetic though I have to say! It's weird because if someone listened to our conversations then they would swear we liked each other but it's just not that! We are together a lot though! He's coming to mine tomorrow which upset Sophie (The stand-up girl) who got all Lauren Conrad on our arses and was like "Ewwwww, you so like her! If you touch her it's over!"
She is entertaining; you have to give her that! I was tempted to run and hug Chris today in front of her friend (who would tell her) just to see what she'd do! I refrained though!
As for O he's still being extremely nice and has went for the "reminding me of the good times thing" today! I played along but very half heartedly......
OH NOOOOOOO! It's stopped snowing! Darn this unpredictable British weather!! Now I am thoroughly depressed! ;)
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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Postby keds723 » Thu Feb 05, 2009 1:32 pm

Honestly, I do not know. I know that if I found out B liked me, I would be royally screwed. I would be even more confused, and for now it's innocent and no one is getting their feelings hurt, except me! I just can't stop thinking of him and wondering what if. we have a nice 4 hour chunk of time together because we both are in music ed and we teach at the same schools. So, he went out of his way to sit next to me in the van. I can tell he is flirting because it's something he doesn't do with the other girls in the class. He looks at me when I'm doing the rhythm exercises in the big group and I'm sitting with my girls that I teach flute. He steals my things and makes fun of me. He complimented what I was wearing today and said I looked really nice. He touches my arm a lot if that's anything. It's just so strange, and I feel good about myself because of it. Yesterday in class, he sat next to me and didn't say a thing during seminar, but then at the end waited for me to walk to the next class with. WHY?! Seriously, my head is so confused and I can't take this anymore. Part of me wants to see where this could go, and part of me says Evan is so great. It's hard when I don't know! I don't know if I want to spend forever with Evan. Evan has a way of making his future sound "Me-less." And that's why I'm so confused. If I love Evan and want to be with him, but I'm not sure if he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with, how do I tell if B is the one I can be with and what do I do if I'm wrong?!
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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Postby lovemesomecullensss » Thu Feb 05, 2009 7:29 pm

Haha thanks! :] So Ethan's out, huh? This girl needs to make up her mind! Haha. Not getting mixed up with that it probably a good idea, though. Who knows who it'll be next haha. Well, at least your horoscope has a good outlook for you, right? ;]

Sorry you were all tired and sore, etc. :[ As for L, you need to investigate! Make sure you're still on for that date and see how she acts around you. If she's even remotely interested, I'd bet that you're the second guy. Just because you approached her doesn't mean that she didn't have her eye on you first! ;] :]

Haha I liked your response to that question. I'm SO with you! :]

So... It sounds to me like Evan isn't planning on continuing your relationship while he's in Oregon. A guy wouldn't just invite you to leave the relationship if he wasn't already thinking to do the same thing, you know? Sounds a little sketchy. Here's what I think you should do: Get to know B better. Hang out with him, don't be afraid to be his friend. That doesn't mean flirt with him; you can, but not very much, especially if he's trying to flirt with you. Just get to know him and maybe hang out with him just as friends. And then if you really feel like you've made a connection with him, you can start thinking about whether staying with Evan until he leaves for Oregon is really worth it. A guy who makes his future sound you-less isn't exactly someone you want to stick around for in the long run, you know? Just think about it. And good luck! I hope you can sort all this out for yourself. :]

Well sounds like you've been having fun with your admirers. ;] Haha. You're not interested in either of them at all? Attraction comes from where you least expect it, so you never know! :]

I talk to Andy a LOT. We see each other every day at school and text most of the time to boot. And basically an ice storm is just when it snows and then rains and then all of that freezes and the ground is covered in six inches of ice... Haha. ;] I'm glad you could cope with the Chris situation! Haha. I'm sure he really appreciates it. And those people who think you like each other... They can get over themselves. ;] They're just jealous, of course. And O... We need to figure out this guys MO! (That means motivation.) Seriously, he's being kind of weird... Hope your weather decides to stop being bipolar. :]

Not much. I did my auditions today. My vocal one went well (which I did NOT want.) I wanted to do terribly so I won't get cast in Emperor's New Clothes. But alas, I somehow sang better than I ever have before and the director loved it... Crap! And my audition for New Works (our festival of student-written, student-directed plays) went really well, which is good. Acting auditions for Emperor's are tomorrow and so are New Works callbacks... So yeah.
Andy seemed normal today. Last night we had a therapy session, which we haven't had in a LONG time. You see, last year when he was having girl problems, he needed someone to talk to about it (aka a "therapist") and that was what started our friendship. So he just talked about what's been stressing him out lately, etc. No talk about Cara though. I think he probably won't be talking to me about girls for a looooong time haha... Which is funny because I was his number one source for girl advice last year. Haha.
And I saw Tim today at New Works auditions. He was doing a monologue from "The Patriot." He's a super cutie and he makes me smile and laugh, but I'm still just not feeling... "crushy?" I don't know.
Oh, and Patrick's play only has male roles, so he can't cast me. BUMMER.
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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Postby psugar » Thu Feb 05, 2009 11:05 pm

LMSC(or Christine not sure what to call you): Definitely not liking any of them, so set on 'S' he rocks and I see him in the halls randomly again we both couldn't go to the library for activity.

Wolf~Girl90: I'm going to London cause my choir director was a organ dude(he joined us last year) at St. Paul, umm where Shakesphere was born or something like that. Umm I will have to check the list we will be there for most of July.
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