The Dating Thread--take 2

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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Post by CamberXite » Sun Oct 12, 2008 5:27 pm

Gah, I'm in a huge dilemma!
I think my friend is going to ask me out, because he keeps hinting it, and he told my friend that he thought I was gorgeous, and that he might ask me out.

Butttt, I'm still in love with Jake -hangs head in shame-
And I donno, I guess I just want to be friends with him.
But I have no idea how to tell him that if and when he asks me out.

Aaaah -rips hair out-
Any suggestions guys?
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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Post by colegurl » Sun Oct 12, 2008 6:45 pm

CamberXite :

Just tell him, "I like you..but just as a friend." If he is truly your friend, he'll understand..what i always do is i play around with the "idea" of me and another guy being together...i think about..would it be akward? things like that...just think about it..

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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Post by lovemesomecullensss » Sun Oct 12, 2008 7:17 pm

I'm glad you can decide to move on. :]

Don't let him laugh at you! Spilling your guts here is totally respectable. :] And as for his sister... like you said, just ignore her. It's not your fault she's being ridiculous. :]

Haha thanks for reading that whole thing! And yes... 'Twas quite... all of those things you said. Haha.

And thanks SAM and LAYLA for responding to my post. I'm mentally trying to recover from last night... Oh, how interesting school will be tomorrow...

Awww, hon, I'm sorry you're still in love with Jake. But it's not a big deal. It happens. Do you have any romantic feeling towards this friend whatsoever? If you do, then you should maybe just give him a chance. A trial date or something. You never know, you may end up really enjoying yourself. But if you don't, then don't lead him on. Just tell him that you don't feel that way about him and you'd rather be friends. But tell him you think he's cute or something to soften the blow. ;] Just be sensitive, and I'm sure you will be. :]

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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Post by 1luvcharlie » Sun Oct 12, 2008 8:41 pm

Okay I'm officially caught up!!! Yay!

Christine: Ur such a sweetie and thanks for missing me! That party was intense! I cant believe those icky people had sex!!!! Gross! And Andy wow! I'm proud of how you handled it though.

Camber: I would just tell him the truth. That you don't like him like that and your into someone else. Honesty is the best policy:D!

My Update:
Well since I haven't been on here for forever I could probably write a novel. But I'll spare you! I'll tell you the two biggest things:
-Okay so when I got back from Texas(that's were my great uncle lived) Mike took my out on this really romantic date. Ahh it made me swoon! We went star gazing and had a pic-nic. And he was all like "I missed you soo much while you were gone. And being away made me realize how much I care about you." So he gave me his ring and ask me to go steady with him!!!! It was so cute. He is the best.
-So my homecoming is in like two weeks and me and Mike had talked about it and he said he didn't want to go and I was all sad cause I had wanted to go. But then on Friday I was at the football game with a couple of my friends and then the cheerleaders come out with a sign and it says "Jess will you go to homecoming with me?" and then I get tapped on the shoulder and theres Mike with a bouquet of white roses(their my favorite kind of roses)! I was so surprised and like in shock. So of course I said yes so I now we're going to homecoming! Yay!
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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Post by edward x lover » Sun Oct 12, 2008 9:10 pm

1iluvcharlie: that is the cutest story EVER. I actually haven't gotten around to forching Greg to take me to homecoming yet. But no worries he WILL take me. =]

ok I have another update YAY (today was exciting)
So I just got home. Greg surprised me with a REALLY romantic date. We went to the beach and he brought apple juice and wine glasses instead of actual alcohol (he knows how much I hate drinking) So a couple weeks ago I gave him a little key on a key chain and told him it was the key to my heart so today while we were talking he gave me this necklace with a heart and a key hole in it. =] It was so sweet. he said now I really do have the key to your heart. *sigh* So then he was like now you have to add it to your I <3 edward cullen necklace and I was like but I don't have one and he was like now you do and pulled out an I <3 edward cullen charm and added it to the necklace. *huge sigh* Then I asked him if he was doing all this bc he felt bad that he sister was mean to me and he said no bc he doesn't care what she thinks he loves me no matter what. I am like dazed right now. He officially dazzles me.
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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Post by tiffi » Sun Oct 12, 2008 9:26 pm

ahhh wow ever since..omg it was only yesterday???-me and ben hav been like mor and mor flirty!! lol yayy examples anyone?

me: ya it was sooooo embarrising. even after everyone left she kept on going "tiffffffi why havnt u kissed him yet??
ben: lol. wt did u say?
ben: i kinda wish we would of

me: beeeeeeeen!!!!
ben: TIFFFIIIIIIII!!!!! i havnt seen you in forever! lol
me: ik!!!! i missssss youuuuuu lol
ben: i miss you too :)

me: ya maybe itd (studying) would be fun if u lived here and we could study together
ben:ik! lol that would be pretty fun, i wish that all the time so i could see you more anyway lol not jus the weekends :(

and i like rele DONT miss ppl. seriously ik that sounds rele horrible and creul but lol i legit miss him. its like a new feeling to me. haha and i like RELE RELE want to kiss him. that'll happen soon i i actually had a dream about it....hahh...anywayy my friend describs it as "kiss horney" lol

another thing: one of my guy friends asked me if i was of course i said nope but i sensed he didnt rele wana talk to me ne more cuz he kept giving me one word replys lol...should i tell ben this??
oh and OMG my mom called ben BG!!!!! ahhhhh embarrising!!!!!!!!!

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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Post by Layla_Hale » Sun Oct 12, 2008 10:33 pm

Tiffi: ur mom called ben bg? What did ben say? He knows about bg, right?

1luvcharlie: aww, Mike sounds soo sweet!

Edward x lover: aw, Greg sounds sweet too! Im glad he doesn’t care about his sister! lol

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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Post by Valentina » Sun Oct 12, 2008 11:08 pm

Wow, shiny new thread! Well, new-ish, I missed the creation and the first four three pages!

So I don't know whats going on with everyone... fill me in?

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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Post by virginiax7 » Sun Oct 12, 2008 11:37 pm

You know what is sad? The fact that I haven't posted on here in over a week. I KNOW. I am so bummed. But whatever. I have come to share some updates...some good, some creepy. Sigh. In my life, there are always more creepy ones than good ones.

The Good First:
Last night was my friend Shayna's 16th birthday party, and she was co-hosting it with this girl named Hayden who goes to Galloway, which is a hippie private school here in Atl. This was nice, because there were a lot of really cute Galloway boys. :D I was being sneaky and checking them all out when a big group of Galloway kids came in, along with the cutest guy EVER! Not like, Abercrombie model good looking, but cute in a quirky, Seth Cohen sort of way. (Which happens to be more of my type than some preppy dude.) So, I was like "Yo, I am totally having his kids. Done, done and done."

Howeve, before I had his kids, I thought it might be a good idea to meet the boy first. So I went and found my friend Emma who goes to Galloway, pointed at him and was like "INTRODUCE ME. NOW" She laughed and dragged him over and was like "Jacob, Virginia. Virginia, Jacob." (And his name is Jacob! Ack!) Then she left and we stood their talking for a while. God, he's so cute. I don't even remember what I said, but it was probably weird, lol. Oh well. I didn't get to talk to him again, but at least he knows my name, since I'm going to be having his kids. That's probably important. ;)

The Creepy:
(And Holden can totally second this, seeing as I'm Facebook chating with him and was when I got this and had a freakout, lol. Thanks Holden. :D )
The other day, this kid Jeff who I've NEVER TALKED TO IN MY LIFE, EVER Facebook chatted me and was like "Hey, what's up?" I thought he might have started talking to the wrong person, since he has never talked to me before, but then he was like "Are you there?" I was kind freaked, so I logged off and didn't think anything of it. That is, until I logged in tonight and THIS was in my mailbox:

"hey virginia this is jeff parks. But any ways. My parents are telling me to ask . i don't care if you say no , because i don't know you and i don't think you know me. But will you be my escort to homecoming."

WTF AT MY LIFE. (I think I said this exact same thing to Holden...) WHAT IS UP WITH GUYS I'VE NEVER TALKED TO ASKING ME OUT?! God, here I am swooning over all these nerdy cute boys when the only ones I get are the creepers. And what is he talking about, "my parents are telling me to ask"? Does he mean they told him "Jeff, ask Virginia" or were like all "Jeff, you have to ask someone" and he chose me? But why did he choose me? Did he think I would say yes? (Obviously he doesn't know me very well.) Did he think I was so date hungry I'd say yes to anyone? Well, I have news for you, Jeff Parks: NO WAY JOSE. I mean, of course I'm not going to say it like that. I'll just tell him thanks, but I've already made plans to go with a group of friend, or something lame like that.

Now I'm listen to Wilco and drinking mango tea in order to calm myself down. I'm debating telling my mom, but when I told her I got asked out by that kid in PE, she laughed a lot. So I might not.

I wish there was a portal I could take to like, a secret NBOAD treehouse or something and all ya'll would be there (and maybe some junk food too) and I could wine about this and be creeped out with everyone. Because you guys would (and you will) make me feel better, and would probably make it funny. So that's my wish: super duper Lex portal! Whoo!

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Re: The Dating Thread--take 2

Post by Valentina » Sun Oct 12, 2008 11:52 pm

Virginia, I totally would've messaged him back and said "I don't even know you, so no, I'm not going to Homecoming with you." Its a not a lame excuse, it is the truth, and its not overly rude.